Why Embracing Witchcraft is the Best Decision I’ve Ever Made

Identifying as a witch has been the most powerful and transformative thing I have ever done for myself. Let me share why this journey has been so life-changing.

Growing Up Without Spirituality

My spiritual beliefs started at absolute zero. Coming from a family of atheists, I was raised without any religious or spiritual influence. However, looking back, I realise that spark of curiosity wasn’t completely absent. I vividly remember my mum asking me if I believed in “God.” At the time, I was probably learning about Christianity in primary school and eagerly sharing what I’d absorbed. My response was clear: “I don’t believe in a God like in Christianity, but I do believe there is something out there.”

I was about six years old then. My mum didn’t dismiss my words; instead, she brushed them off with a simple, “Okay, cool,” as parents often do when kids talk their ears off about something new. Trust me, I was one of those kids, full of questions, talking a mile a minute, my brain often racing faster than my words could keep up.

The Black Sheep in a Conventional Family

Growing up, I was always the “black sheep,” the “odd one,” the kid who didn’t quite fit in. My family couldn’t understand my fascination with the universe and metaphysics. To them, the physical world was all there was. They hadn’t yet experienced the awakening of their souls.

As a child, my understanding of the universe was purely physical. I devoured every book on space I could find at the local library and endlessly begged for a telescope. Though I never got one of my own, my godfather would let me use his. He had a profound influence on shaping the person I am today.

Losing My Connection to the Universe

My teenage years were tumultuous, filled with both mental and physical trauma. From toxic relationships to substance abuse and homelessness, I was caught in a storm of chaos. During this period, I lost any connection I might have had with the universe or higher powers. Life felt like a downward spiral.

At 19, I met my partner, who later became the father of my children. This relationship brought a sense of stability, but I still felt disconnected. Life became a daily grind—working long hours as a head chef in a care home, paying bills while my partner pursued his apprenticeship. The magic was missing.

The Turning Point: Motherhood and the Law of Attraction

Everything changed when I became a mother. At 21, I fell pregnant with my first child, Dexter. Shortly before he was born, I decided not to return to work. Instead, I wanted to be at home with my son, so I took a leap and started my own business. I had no idea what I was doing, but a friend’s advice about the Law of Attraction (LOA) opened a door for me.

At first, I didn’t understand LOA, and Google didn’t offer much help back then. Once I figured it out, however, it became the foundation of my reconnection to the cosmic realm. Dexter’s innocent and pure energy rekindled that spark within me.

Deepening the Connection: Skylah’s Influence

Just over a year after Dexter’s birth, my daughter, Skylah, was born. While Dexter opened the door to my spiritual journey, Skylah solidified my connection. Her natural alignment with higher powers forced me to dive deeper into metaphysics, learning how things like the moon affect our bodies.

Her influence pushed me so deeply into the spiritual world that it became impossible to climb back out. I made the decision to leave my initial business behind to focus entirely on my spiritual journey and share it with others.

Embracing My Identity as a Witch

Today, I fully embrace the title of “witch.” However, this wasn’t always the case. Growing up, I was taught that people who identified as witches were crazy, delusional, or dangerous. Over time, I realised this perception was rooted in ignorance and fear.

Identifying as a witch has brought profound changes to my life. My confidence has soared, and I’ve become more aligned with my true self. The positive transformations have inspired those around me, including my family and partner, who now also identifies as a witch—a development I never anticipated!

Building a Witchy Business

Now, I’ve incorporated my identity as a witch into my business. By sharing my knowledge and experiences, I’ve created a safe space for others to explore their own spiritual journeys without fear of judgment. Identifying as a witch can take many forms, depending on one’s perspective, and it’s deeply empowering.

Witchcraft is woven into everyday life in subtle ways. For instance, I give back to the earth through tree planting initiatives like Ecologi. These practices remind us that magic isn’t about theatrics—it’s about being in tune with ourselves, our surroundings, and the universe.

Final Thoughts

If you’re considering identifying as a witch or exploring your spirituality, remember that it’s a deeply personal journey. It’s okay to start small and keep parts of your practice private. However, don’t be afraid to push your boundaries because that’s how we grow.

Identifying as a witch has been life-changing for me, allowing me to reconnect with the universe, build a fulfilling business, and create a positive ripple effect in the lives of those around me. Whether you’re just starting or already on your journey, know that the path to self-discovery is always worth walking.

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